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jen's avatar

Excited for this series! The weight loss ransom is so unethical.

I know I've told this story before but I'll tell it again anyway: I have a grade 3 spondylolisthesis along with mild spina bifida but other congenital deformities in my spine. The spondy could be corrected with hardware, but I was only prescribed weight loss for many years, and now I'm in my 40s and I've adapted. (I use a wheelchair part-time. I walk as much as my body lets me. I try to maintain my strength, as well as my bladder and bowel function.)

Somehow, I got connected with someone who specializes in congenital deformities like mine. He was shocked to meet someone in their 40s who hadn't had surgery, and I could almost seem the realization on his face when I told him that I'd spent 20 years being told to lose weight. He said he could fuse it, but the surgery goes through the abdomen, and he'd need a thoracic surgeon's help for that. All the thoracic surgeons in the county (a big place-- Maricopa county, AZ) have strict BMI limits and wouldn't even consider helping me until I lost weight. He also said that I'd likely need revision surgeries every 1.5-2 years for the rest of my life.

I pointed out that I'd need to lose over half my body weight to be anywhere close to an acceptable BMI for these thoracic surgeons, and it would take years to do this. Even if I was successful, nearly everyone regains what they lost, so what happens when I need a revision surgery but my body does what nearly all bodies do? He said I wouldn't be able to get revision surgeries until I lost that weight again.

I declined. The excruciating pain of failed hardware on my spine sounds way worse than using a wheelchair for the rest of my life. But wow, my heart breaks for everyone in situations like mine who got the surgery and now can't get revisions. Talk about cruelty.

Chris C's avatar

Weight loss is not a substitute for healthcare. Great phrase. Really puts some things into perspective! It can also come across as "my job would be a lot easier if you just lost weight." Or suggests I wouldn't even need the doctor if I lost weight, except maybe for whatever weight loss intervention they are promoting.

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