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Thank you for breaking this down. I'm agender and while top surgery isn't an experience I anticipate having, this was still relatable and worth thinking about. Because my lower half carries a lot of my weight, I often don't fit in public bathroom stalls comfortably--or at all. The design of people's home bathrooms can be even worse, in terms of the toilet being installed right next to a wall. I'm lucky I haven't been in a situation yet to deal with worse, as you described here.

And despite having a procedure last year that involved one, I hadn't given much thought to catheters or staff assistance with fat patients until reading this. I really appreciate you highlighting the bias and limitations in the system, so that we can all try to improve things but also so that I can continue to remain aware of what I might encounter. It's helped me prepare and self-advocate in many situations since I started following your work.

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