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Jessica's avatar

I had this exact situation this morning with a patient - the conversation was essentially “I think a lot of my problems wouldn’t be as bad (depression, anxiety, hip pain) if I was smaller.”

We talked extensively about the fact that we don’t have any good evidence for a method of weight loss that is more permanent or long lasting than one to maybe two years, and that wanting to be smaller in a society where you are treated better if you are smaller, is a reasonable thing to desire under the circumstances, but that it is not something I can recommend ethically. I then reiterated that she is the boss of her body and whatever decision she makes, I will ultimately support her choice, Including prescribing meds if that’s what she wants, under the circumstances of an extensive discussion of the risks, benefits, and expected outcomes.

It was hard. The whole thing.

Lorie Loe's avatar

What an extraordinarily powerful piece, Ragen. One thing that I think is worth considering is the " all or nothing" mentality that many patients might bring to their caregivers, as in I'm either on a diet or I'm absolutely out of control and bingeing on ultra-processed, manufactured foods. My research indicates that manufactured foods are a key driver of weight-gain (and not just from the caloric perspective) and create equally dangerous metabolic disruption and hormonal imbalance, i.e, negative health consequences.

For binge eaters like me, our weight-cycling is driven by the extremes of binging and restricting, and it would be helpful if more caregivers understood that any conversation around intentional weight loss can trigger patients in all kinds of ways. Obviously the psychology of binge eating disorder (BED) or any ED is complex, and I wish the healthcare community understood what they are dealing with when they are talking about intentional weight loss, pro or con. It would be great to have a caregiver be able to have a balanced, middle ground conversation about what it means to try to cure emotional distress through having a smaller body.

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